Self-care has become a buzzword in recent years and for good reason. In a world rapidly spinning on the wheels of deadlines and distractions, self-care has risen to prominence, not merely as a trendy topic but as an essential practice for maintaining our mental and emotional well-being.
Social media is brimming with self-care rituals, from elaborate skincare routines to yoga retreats in exotic locations.
While these posts are inspiring, they can also put undue pressure on us to "perform“ self-care rather than genuinely experience its benefits.
Self-care doesn’t have to be complicated, expensive or Instagram-worthy. In fact, the simplest practices are often the most effective. The key is to find what works for you and consistently make time for it.
The key lies in discovering what resonates with you and committing to making it a regular part of your life.
Here are ten manageable and effective ways to nurture your mind, body, and soul without breaking the bank or needing an exotic retreat.
1. Journalling: Your thoughts, your way
Journalling stands out as a highly individual form of self-care that allows you to express yourself in a manner that feels comfortable.
You don’t need a fancy notebook or perfect penmanship. Spill your thoughts onto the page in whatever form feels natural: bullet points, doodles or even single words.
Set aside five or ten minutes a day to jot down your thoughts. Studies show that expressive writing can reduce stress and improve overall mental health, as noted by psychologist Dr James Pennebaker.
Journalling is like a mental detox - you’ll feel lighter after putting your feelings into words.
2. Try a digital diet
With the average South African clocking in nearly three hours of online activity daily, opting for a digital detox - even for just an hour - can create space for restorative activities.
Consider replacing screen time with a walk, a chat with a friend, or losing yourself in a good book.
3. Clean your space, clear your mind
While cleaning may not sound glamorous, a tidy environment can foster mental clarity.
Whether you tackle a thorough declutter or simply organise a small area, the act of cleaning can have a calming effect, particularly when paired with your favourite tunes or podcasts.
4. Give yourself something to look forward to
Anticipation can enhance your day-to-day routine. Whether it’s a coffee outing with a friend or a solo movie night, planning small, enjoyable moments can uplift your spirits, adding an element of excitement to your week.
5. Get dressed for yourself
The clothes we wear influence our mood and self-perception. Stepping out of pyjamas into comfortable yet stylish attire, especially when working from home, can significantly alter how we feel and approach our day.
6. Cook with intention
Cooking can be therapeutic, serving as a mindful practice that nourishes not only the body but also the mind. Pick a recipe you’ve been wanting to try, and enjoy the process.
Selecting a new recipe or enjoying the cooking process itself can transform a mundane task into a soulful experience.
7. Make something with your hands
Engaging in hands-on creativity, whether it’s knitting, painting, or any other craft, can promote relaxation and decrease stress hormone levels.
Don’t worry about being “good” at it, this isn’t about the final product. It’s about losing yourself in the process and reaping the mental health benefits that come with it
8. Embrace JOMO (the joy of missing out)
In a society fixated on FOMO (fear of missing out), it can be liberating to take a step back. Prioritise time to recharge by opting out of social engagements now and again, and indulge in activities that bring you comfort.
Skip the post-work drinks or that expensive dinner invite once in a while. Instead, spend the evening recharging in your own way, whether it’s a bubble bath or binge-watching your favourite show.
9. Spend time with animals
Interacting with pets can be a natural stress-reliever, boosting feel-good hormones and lowering anxiety levels. If you don’t have a pet, consider connecting with animals at a local shelter, offering you both therapeutic companionship and joy.
10. Create a “Yay!“ list
At the end of each day, reflect on and jot down one or two positive experiences, no matter how small.
This practice not only cultivates gratitude but also shifts focus from what may be troubling you to recognising joyful moments.